Commonly Asked Questions

Everything you need to know

If your question isn't answered here, reach out directly — I'm happy to help.

General Questions about Sessions

Absolutely not! I love working with those who are new to this work as well as those who have had some experience. I tend to find that those who have no experience have an easier time dropping in and directing their mind to the body versus applying their previous experience to the session.

Come with a clear intention — even something simple, like slowing down, relaxing deeply, staying curious, or gaining clarity about something in your life. Having an anchor for your awareness helps guide the experience and allows the session to meet you where you are. You'll be asked to shower before and after our time together. Please avoid wearing heavy cologne or perfume, so we can keep the space clear and sensitive to natural scents. If there is any inkling you might be coming down with something, please reach out to me. Give yourself plenty of time to arrive. Arriving unrushed helps you settle into your body and receive the full depth of the session.

There are a few components to a session and I find that 2 hours is a solid amount of time for most people to have a truly relaxing first session. For those that want to have more time to speak at the beginning or tend to feel anxiety, I recommend 2.5 or 3 hours to make sure there's ample time to offer you an aligned session.

While you are welcome to book a doubles session for your first time, I would consider booking longer than two hours especially if you are new to Tantra.

Please refrain from any intoxicants for 24 hours prior to your session as this will create a safe and beneficial starting point for both of us. If you do show up intoxicated, I do reserve the right to ask you to leave, and to pay for the session time in full.

Booking & Screening Process

Your safety, comfort, and privacy are deeply important to me. The screening and application process helps me create a safe, respectful space for us both and ensure that your experience feels aligned and nourishing. Thank you for taking the time to connect with care — I see this as the first step in building something incredible together.

I try to answer my texts and emails as soon as possible, within 24–48 hours. If you haven't heard from me within that time, please feel free to shoot me another message. It's just me, myself and I, so I appreciate your patience.

Once you're screened and come in for your session, all screening materials are deleted.

I offer sessions at my incall spaces in San Jose, San Francisco and Oakland. I offer outcalls at times to established clients, but it depends on my availability.

You can find all session lengths and rates here. I accept cash for my in-person sessions.

I appreciate 24 hours notice for cancellations. Cancellations less than 3 hours before the session I consider a late cancel, and will ask you to pay 50% of the cancelled session to rebook.

Still have questions?

Reach out directly — I'm happy to talk through anything before you book.

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